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Lauren O'Neil's avatar

Wow, what a ride! First, I naively assumed you were American judging only on the title of this post. And then I quickly became invested in the Romanian election, and then relieved to see that Dan won. I'm happy for you, and happy to be following you :)

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Alexandra's avatar

Thank you, Lauren, so happy you're here!! ☺️

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Nicki Klutts's avatar

I had the same reaction! Loved the post.

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Alexandra's avatar

Thank uuu 🫶

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Dan's avatar

I swear by "you are what you consume". It is a great guideline!

A friend of mine gave me a mug that says "Smile often". Whenever I see it, I realize the world is not impending to explode, and that the thoughts I have define my mood.

And where do my thoughts come from? My subconscious, which soaks them like a sponge from people and media around me.

Mass media is especially bad. It is designed to keep you engaged and anxiously watching. I don't follow it, and instead only consume what either brings me enjoyment, or informs me of something that I find useful.

Sure, you could say knowing the outcome of the election was useful, in case you were planning on leaving the country or something. But a wise man once said, "In every life we have some trouble, but when you worry you make it double. Don't worry. Be happy."

The world might suck and might get better or worse. But focusing on my circle of influence helps a lot. What CAN you do? What IS under your control?

Ever since I stopped watching doomer stuff (and I once went deep down a rabbit hole) , the world seems brighter, and I started becoming *curious* about it. Sometimes I still have negative thoughts, like thinking the world is going to end. Then I notice my mug again, and I soon *look forward* to figuring out how. Is it going to be climate change? Human revolts? Robot revolts [1]?

[1] https://www.mediafax.ro/stirile-zilei/un-autobuz-fara-sofer-a-fost-testat-cu-brio-pe-strazile-din-cluj-napoca-23556433

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Alexandra's avatar

That's a nice outlook but I can't pull it off. I'm still curious about the world, but I can't help but worry about everything that's going on right now. Also the robots will totally kill us 💅

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kristine's avatar

Hi!! I can totally understand your feelings, I'm from Slovakia, and the political situation here is godawful. Sending lots of support though, and hope it turns out well :)) your post made me feel less alone in my frustration and anxiety

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Alexandra's avatar

Hi, Kristine! Thank you for the comment, and glad the article made you feel less alone ❤️ sending lots of support back.

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Daniel Puzzo's avatar

Phew! I bet you're breathing a massive sigh of relief. Thank goodness for that, there is hope after all 🙏

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Alexandra's avatar

Yessss, it was so close, today feels like a national holiday.

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Ingrid Haring-Mendes's avatar

I’m really crossing my fingers that fascism loses!!

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Alexandra's avatar

It did!! 🙌

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Chad R Herman's avatar

I hope all turns out well

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Alexandra's avatar

Thank uuuu 😊

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